A Bam spokesman told TMZ … he and his wife Nikki Boyd divorced a few weeks ago. Since then, he has not been able to hold her or see his son, Phoenix Wolf. We were told that he had not responded to any of Bam’s calls or messages and was absent from his recovery process. Waiting for your permission to load Instagram multimedia. Due to the separation, Bam was living in a sober house when he made his illegal exit from the restoration. We were told that he kept it together for a while, but since he had no news from Nikki or his son for 2 weeks … he showed a bad crisis and left the treatment center. We were also told that the facility did not provide him with special celebrity care – which is not a bad thing, but others have done it in the past, so that led him as well. TMZ broke the story … the star of “Tzakas” was declared missing on Monday after he left the FL detox center and the police were looking for him. When he was found Wednesday, a crisis response team broke into a hotel in Delray Beach and escorted him back to treatment. He learned that Nicki had taken Phoenix from Florida without telling him, and voluntarily returned to treatment. Last year Nikki filed documents in Los Angeles requesting full custody of their son, allowing Bam to be supervised. We took pictures of Bam outside on Tuesday night at some bars near his hotel. We were told he had stopped taking his medication for several days and his team was worried he had relapsed. The good news is that he returned to treatment.